Divorce 101

At Next Phase Legal, our skilled Massachusetts divorce lawyers and mediators try to avoid the “scorched earth” approach to domestic relations.  Simply put, this style is not good for you, your family, or your finances.

In the early stages of divorce,  it is difficult to cut through the information competing for your attention.  Websites, family members, books, and friends all have something to say, and frankly you may just feel overwhelmed.

Some of the worst advice may come from well-meaning family members and friends.  You need solid advice from a professional and realistic feedback, with the goal to resolve your case in a way that works for you and your children, if you are a parent.

Why Divorce – How to Handle Divorce

If you have children, the marital relationship ends, but parental ties remain. A high-conflict divorce in Massachusetts will make it almost impossible to have a reasonable parenting relationship post-divorce.  When divorced parents cannot reasonably co-exist, you face years of stressful and heated interactions with your former spouse, not to mention ongoing legal expenses when frequent modifications are filed or a parenting coordinator is required to keep the peace.

Believe us when we tell you that (unless something is wrong with you perhaps) you are going to get tired of frequently knocking heads with your ex-spouse.  No matter how much anger, resentment, and sadness you are feeling, doing your best to take the “high road” will pay dividends in the months and years ahead.   We know this isn’t easy some days.

Consider Ways to Resolve Your Massachusetts Divorce Outside of Court

Some cases must be tried in court, but over 90% of court-based Massachusetts divorce cases settle prior to trial.  Since that is what happens in the vast majority of cases, why not work towards a fair settlement from the beginning so you can move on with your life?   Working with a divorce mediator or lawyer that focuses on problem solving instead of fanning the flames makes sense.  When a settlement is not possible, then our attorneys are ready for trial.

It this approach sounds like it could be a good match for you, then let’s talk more. 

Our Norfolk County divorce lawyers and family law attorneys and family mediators are ready to help you reach your goals in the areas of:

  • Child Support
  • Child Custody & Parenting Plans
  • Alimony, Spousal Support
  • Property Division
  • Prenuptial Agreements
  • Modification and Contempt Complaints
  • Removal of children outside of Massachusetts
  • Assisted Reproductive Technology
  • Divorce Mediation
  • Collaborative Divorce
  • Arbitration
  • Case Evaluation
  • Conciliation

For additional questions on how to handle divorce please feel free to contact us.

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